I've got an Asrock A790GMH/128M mobo and recently acquired two 4GB kits of OCZ2RPR800C44GK CL4 memory. Either kit by itself runs fine at 4-4-4-15 T1 @ 2.2v (tested for 1 hour with Prime95 blended, lots of RAM tested) but when I try using all 4 modules it doesn't want to post. All indications point to needing to loosen the timings a bit but I've never really messed with the memory much so I'm wondering where I should start on trying to get these going. It is my HTPC (Phenom II x 2 550 unlocked to 3 cores) so these were to be an upgrade from the 4x1GB PC6400 Qimonda memory that I had been using. I guess I can still consider it an upgrade to switch from 4x1GB >>>2x2GB but I had looked forward to seeing that 8GB working in there. If it isn't going to get me any extra benefit I guess I could always sell one of the Reaper 2x2GB kits but I'd really like to try to tweak these a little to see if I can get them all to work together. What would be a good timings set to start at? From what I have gleaned from googling the most important settings are TCL, RCD, TRP, TRAS, MA, and TRFC, I don't know what all the other stuff is in the bios mem settings. I have seen that a few lucky folks have OC'd that memory to 1066 (and there is a setting in my bios that would allow that) but I'd be happy to just get the 4x2GB running stably at the stock 6400 speeds. Your advice is appreciated.
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But at least I learned how to use nlite so it wasn't a total waste