Looks like we may be "helping" each other as we are using the same mobo and your mem specs look like my Corsair
How far into the bios have you gone and how much have you oc'ed before?
Sadly I've just got off work and am totally whipped (it is 01:48 here). If no one else comes along I'll try to give you my suggestions, but yes lower the mem to 800, run 5-5-5-15 @T2 with vdimm at 2.1V. If you are running the stock cooler I would start with the FSB @ +2 each time and see if it will run a 8M run of Super Pi. However to get anywhere you will need to up the vcore and that calls for an after market cooler also to do any serious oc'ing you'll need to look into cooling the mosfets also.
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